Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Men And Women Must Learn New Relationship Skills

In the the primitive age which refers to a simple form of society that has not yet developed industry or writing men and women were peaceful partners. When women felt loved and respected because her man went out to hunt to provide for her and her children. Then the communication skills were not necessary. They depended on each other in order to survive and food, sex, shelter and security motivated them to work together.

In the present situation things have changed and even after a decade men and women are ready to give up and want to proceed for divorce. Actually many couples didn’t really want to split up but weren’t getting what they needed from each other in order to stay together.

What men donot understand is that today women are no longer mothers, nurturers and homemakers but now they are also providers and protectors.

Now the times have changed and we really have no choice but to change with them. Men and women make the mistake of assuming that love is enough to make a relationship last. What men and women don’t understand is that the relationship between husband and wife is only a preparation for a journey, not its culmination, not the end. And because it is a journey, the husband and wife are always in a state of tussle. A journey is always a tussle; peace is only to be found at the destination. There is always a state of conflict between a husband and wife; there is round the clock tussle. A round-the-clock tussle with the very person we love!
So new relationship skills must be learned if a man is to be feel needed and appreciated by his wife. A new knowledge of a situation or awareness is required of women if they are to continue working side by side with men and come home to encourage the growth and development of loving relationship.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Relationship between My Father and Mother – Truth Revealed !

I correctly remember that when I was in school and was a growing child my father revealed his secret love life to my mother that he was living a dubious life and he was passionately having affairs with a woman! My mother was aware that he had links with many beautiful women but she couldn’t imagine that his passion will gradually become so serious that he will request my mother for a divorce.

My mother was deeply hurt since she was in real love with my father and was a pious lady. Though the truth really offended her but without showing her resentment or showing any sort mental disturbance she politely said, “if that is what you want and you think you would be happy then I will give you a divorce. Let’s rethink over this issue at least for sometime before you finally decide and come into a concrete decision.”

But after a fortnight my father’s decision curbed towards my mother as if it was a charisma of Superpower. My father decided not to break this relationship and leave his family consisting of my mother, me and two of my younger sisters. My mother was very happy that he has taken a right decision considering the fact that he was a not only a husband but a father of three growing children as well.

They continued to live happily as husband and wife and support each other well but relationship went sour as the loving romance and the real art of love gradually began to disappear. For years together though my father was living physically in our family but mentally he was somewhere else and he continued his affairs outside.

When I grew up and become an adult I asked my mother why she allowed my father’s bigamy throughout her life, she answered, “we loved each other and promised to stay as husband and wife througout our life. But as time went I was more of playing a role of a mother and your father wanted a wife. Moreover, that was nothing but follies of youth.” I was really amazed how she was really accepting my father’s infidelity!

Whenever I raised my voice against my father my mother always assured me that he was a nice gentleman and he never deserted our family even if he had strong desires and we all grew nicely as a family over the years.

Now this is what a woman is known for in our society since a woman is always very kind who is always pleasing, always accommodating to maintain a relationship.

While my parent’s story is common to many people, we men and women nowadays want and expect more from our relationship and the fact remains that meaning of marriage has been altered and we no longer marry for survival and protection but for love, romance and emotional fulfillment. Personal fulfillment has become more important than the family as a whole.

What men should do is that when his wife is busy in playing a role of a mother he should have maintained celibacy. When people have attained to the state of celibacy, when the journey of sex up to superconsciousness has been completed, then too they can enjoy sex and then the child will be a true product, he will be a creation. Sex will be only a means to it!
Our search in that new world will be in the new direction of how to have a child and avoid sex as opposed to our present search of how to have sex and avoid a child. Out of celibacy a very different type of human being will be born who will have a great longevity, whose health can be wondrous, free of illnesses. Then the very beauty of one’s life, the very strength of one’s life, one’s very truth – all will be different altogether!
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Monday, September 7, 2009

Sacred Relationship between Men and Women



With the relationship between men and women comes pleasantly deep and strong bond and great discord, great agony and overwhelming feeling of great happiness, altogether both hell and heaven simply explode in your being.

If you really want to move….and it is worth moving, it is a great experience. Not to fall in love with a woman is to miss something very essential. I am not in the opinion that one has to always remain in love; in remaining in love with a woman forever one misses something. Fall in love and get out of it! Then you are enriched, immensely enriched.

Life remains a discontentment unless you are in real love, something vast, you go on missing meaning. Alone, life is meaningless. Meaning is in love, and there is great meaning when you are in real love. Even ordinary love gives meaning to life, significance to life, but when one falls in love with a woman there is infinite splendor!

The much hyped word sex is the last ladder of love. There are different stages of sexuality through which sexual energy can move – self-erotic, homosexual and heterosexual. Out of three, heterosexuality presents the most difficulties as man and woman’s energies are completely opposite, but it also offers the greatest fulfillment too because in orgasm it happens –- the climax of sexual excitement, experienced as intensely pleasurable sensations centred in the genitals. In deep orgasm your history disappears, your past goes on receding….... and disappears. You don’t have history in orgasm, you don’t have any past, you don’t have any mind ! You don’t have any identity. In that particular moment your ego is not functioning, so the joy of orgasm, so the refreshing quality of it. That’s why it leaves you so silent, so quiet, so relaxed, so fulfilled!

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Monday, August 10, 2009

Become A Man That Women Yearn To Sleep With !

Life is like a garland. You don’t see the thread that runs through the flowers, holding it together. If the thread is not there the flowers will fall apart; there will be a heap of flowers but not a garland. Similarly, if there are no men and women there will be no love, no relationship. In fact opposite sex brings the very existence of the word “Dating”.

If you think of dating you think of love and if you think of love you become love, because whatsoever you think starts taking roots in you. Love comes like a breeze: it comes when it comes. Breeze is a symbol of freedom, of an unpredictability. It is a symbol of life which is not worried about having a goal, achievement, but a sheer enjoyment of the moment...

Your looks are only 20% of what a woman is looking for in a relationship. And if you happen to be above a certain “acceptable” levels of looks; let me tell you, this level is low, lots of UGLY guys make the grade and you can bypass this 20% TOTALLY and make the whole of a woman’s attraction be about WHO you are and HOW you act, instead of what you look like, or how much you get paid…

So, regardless of your looks, age and financial standing – YOU can make young beautiful women attracted to you, seduce them at your leisure and make them fall in love with you with frightening regularity.
You should know that there are NO easy one-liners that actually work well in a relationship. Girls hear one-liners all the time and when they hear a cheesy line from you, they presume you're after one thing and then they reject you! The more times you're rejected, the harder the dating game seems and the lower your confidence plummets.

You should know how to attract beautiful women, how to seduce a woman easily and properly, how to turn women on in seconds, how to get women into bed as often as you like, transform yourself into a guy women want even if you are poor or ugly and being in Love......

I am not saying that one has to always remain in love: in remaining in love with a woman forever one again misses something. Fall in love and get out of it!! Then you are enriched, immensely enriched. Go to the depths of it and then rise back to the surface.

But for that you will have to stop masturbating completely, only then will you become interested. If your energy is flowing in masturbation you don’t have enough energy to be turned on by a woman. That’s where you are blocked. Stop masturbating completely, then you will be boiling with energy! Only then naturally... you are throbbing with energy, and that throbbing energy will make the breakthrough possible. And then don’t be afraid. It is always frightening to move with a woman because men and women are of two different species. They look alike but they are not. Just on the surface they are alike; the insides are so different. That makes a guy a little afraid that one is getting into trouble, but that trouble is worth it. Try it ! Become a Man that Women yearn to Sleep with !

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