Men And Women Must Learn New Relationship Skills

In the the primitive age which refers to a simple form of society that has not yet developed industry or writing men and women were peaceful partners. When women felt loved and respected because her man went out to hunt to provide for her and her children. Then the communication skills were not necessary. They depended on each other in order to survive and food, sex, shelter and security motivated them to work together.

In the present situation things have changed and even after a decade men and women are ready to give up and want to proceed for divorce. Actually many couples didn’t really want to split up but weren’t getting what they needed from each other in order to stay together.

What men donot understand is that today women are no longer mothers, nurturers and homemakers but now they are also providers and protectors.

Now the times have changed and we really have no choice but to change with them. Men and women make the mistake of assuming that love is enough to make a relationship last. What men and women don’t understand is that the relationship between husband and wife is only a preparation for a journey, not its culmination, not the end. And because it is a journey, the husband and wife are always in a state of tussle. A journey is always a tussle; peace is only to be found at the destination. There is always a state of conflict between a husband and wife; there is round the clock tussle. A round-the-clock tussle with the very person we love!

So new relationship skills must be learned if a man is to be feel needed and appreciated by his wife. A new knowledge of a situation or awareness is required of women if they are to continue working side by side with men and come home to encourage the growth and development of loving relationship.